Interested in working with a queer and trans professional hypnodomme, humiliatrix, sacred dominatrix, or calculating findom? With the decades of experience I bring to the kink scene, you can count on a professional domination experience that focuses on bespoke, cerebral kink built with an understanding of how neuropsychology affects your experience, offering a trauma-informed and risk-aware perspective that embraces clients of all genders, sexualities, and body types. The standards my domination adheres to include SSC, 4C’s, RACK, PRICK, and TICK.

My specialty is complex kink: merging multiple kinks and interests with your personal proclivities to ensure your experience is one to remember. My introductory years as a professional dominatrix were as a humiliatrix, findomme, and female supremacist kink facilitator. My calling in the realm of sacred play especially applies to sacred kink scenes, wherein the container of the scene allows us to use roleplay to explore your relationship with control, surrender, and your self-esteem, and offer what can be a cathartic healing experience over the course of one or more sessions. I can dom you over long distance or in-person. If you’re interested in my professional domination, I encourage you to reach out to my private e-mail, hosted via ProtonMail to ensure the best encryption possible for our intimate conversation.

Important details:

1. I will be asking you about your support systems in place during our negotiation process, because I prefer that you have extra support in your life from loved ones, community, mental health care professionals or groups, and your daily routine, so you’ll be able to reflect safely and move forward from each scene. I will not ask their contact information, but I encourage you to take some time to figure this out. You need more people than me to help you hold this between sessions. This is especially pertinent for humiliation, degradation, and sacred kink play.

2. If you’d like me to use toys or costumes in a scene, we need to discuss this beforehand, because I may not own what you want. You may bring your own toys, supply the toys and outfits (which will be considered a value contribution to my toybox).

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Professional Hypnodomination

My hypnotic method is rooted in Ericksonian hypnotic language patterns, and I prefer to use conversational/covert and confusion inductions that prove more effective on people with autism, ADHD, anxiety, and analytical minds than common induction styles such as relaxation, countdowns, and staircases. I am capable of walking you down a staircase or counting you down if you prefer that, but those options are completely unnecessary for me to hypnotize you, and I don’t use them unless you request them. If you’ve struggled to find a dom capable of helping you reach trance, you’re an excellent candidate for my professional mesmerization, and in a private setting where you can completely unmask your behavior, I’ll guide you through a satisfying trance.

Once you’ve entered trance, there are a number of ways I’m able to play with your mind such as: creating physical sensory experiences, including erotic hypnosis scene that could lead you to a hands-free orgasm (HFO), reprogramming, training, conditioning, therapeutic scenarios, age regression, or simply allowing you to enjoy the feeling of mindless trance in the present moment. If there are concepts about yourself that you would like to explore or modify under hypnotic influence, I’m very comfortable guiding your subconscious mind through the process of releasing old paradigms and embracing new outlooks.

Educational Prodomming For New Submissives

With a history in kink and sex education and a love of teaching others, I’m happy to guide you through the process of booking, negotiating, and submitting with me. Professional doms should be assessing things like your limits, your safewords, and your aftercare needs; these are just three of the elements we’ll discuss as I help you explore your desires. Whether you’re interested in trying a new kink or you’re a complete beginner at BDSM, our collaboration will offer you room to consider your interests and help you feel more empowered to explore further.

Humiliation/Degradation

As one of my first loves as a dominatrix, humiliation and degradation are a realm of expertise I cultivated early in life, and have redirected into consensual kink scenes to great effect. With every new degradee, I begin with a conversation that allows me to evaluate how you see yourself, the support you have in life, what you expect from a scene with a paid humiliatrix, and the vulnerabilities I will exploit during our play. This kink pairs exquisitely with many other elements of domination, and can range from light to heavy, depending on how you want to feel. This play can offer a cathartic emotional release from feelings you’ve bottled up.

Kinky Games

As a lifelong gaming enthusiast, I’ve found a great deal of joy in the “gamification” of kink: outsourcing things such as choice, reward, or punishment to randomization or winning/losing. Whether you’re interested in a ‘game of focus’, kinky penalties, the ways I can mindfuck you using only a deck of cards, or how I’d pervert your favorite pastime, games can add stakes to scenes that may otherwise seem routine to an experienced player. There are endless ways to integrate randomization and gameplay into a scene – the question is, do you think you can compete?

Sacred Domination

Some spiritual alchemists, myself included, believe there are three steps toward enlightenment: liberation from the ego, sovereignty over our conscious and subconscious selves, and union with the superconscious. Sometimes, the art of transformation occurs in the dark: when we confront our shadows, unpack our fears, and gain a new relationship with control. Whereas my kink coaching can focus on helping others assess their relationship with control without my presence in your scene, my sacred domination allows me to facilitate personal healing and recovery work through scene, roleplay, and pleasure – not just standard domination practices around goal-setting and training, but with communication and intuition guiding the next scene and the limits you want pushed.

Professional Financial Domination With Forethought

Financial domination has been diluted over the last decade, and so many clients I met once titillated by the idea found themselves put off by instadoms who thought “Fuck you, pay me,” is the breadth of the kink. Financial domination is about control and surrender within the realm of finances, but it doesn’t always look like degradation, dismissal, or fucking someone over.

Perhaps the idea of relinquishing control enough to have a dominatrix making and enforcing your budget evokes complex feelings around the desire. Maybe there’s potential in the concept of having finances used to control your behavior in lieu of whatever self-control you may lack, whether it’s a chastity unlock fee or a cum tax. If you struggle with the concept of meaning and purpose, perhaps there’s catharsis in accepting that the best role for you is one which allows you to provide for a dominant with what money and time you have, rather than being told your meaning is defined by what you lack. Or, like so many, you may simply chase the high of watching my pleasure increase as I take enough to make the numbers in your account dwindle, or the knowledge that my joy from receiving a well-considered gift is far beyond anything your presence alone could provide. There’s pleasure in giving abundance, as any human ATM will tell you.

This play involves frank discussion of your expectations, finances, and budgeting. Monetary exchange is simply another form of energy exchange, and once you understand it as such, it becomes easier to ask yourself: where do you want your energy to go?

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Other kinks I offer to integrate into our experience as the Dominant: