2004 was an era where considerably more searching was required to find kink on the internet. In the Great Smoky Mountains, in between researching psychology concepts and doing homework, I finished reading The Story of O, Venus in Furs, and several of the Marquis de Sade’s works. Enchanted by the mix of bespoke relationship protocol, D/s dynamics, and the vastness of the kink world, I proceeded to devour every blog, wiki, and website that would bring me better understanding of BDSM. That summer, two of my parallel special interests were born: psychology and kink, and they were nurtured together over the next two decades.
Years later, I went on to study social work in university and started my first sex blog, which I maintained as my health allowed for 12 more years, writing kink education pieces, reviewing sex toys; penning personal essays about sex, kink, dating, queerness, and mental health; and going on to freelance and intern for sex and kink education outlets like the now-defunct GetLusty, The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health (Now SHIP: Sexual Health Includes Pleasure), KinkAcademy, and educational libraries on sites like SheVibe.com.
In the mid-2010s, I began professional domination as an outlet for some of my shadows, and found ethical prodomming was a vastly more satisfying way to feed the urge to make grown men cry than Facebook arguments. In the late ’10s, I moved to the Pacific Northwest, and I began content creation on OnlyFans in 2019, going on to help other creators get off the ground, cameo in documentaries about the 2020s OnlyFans boom, and release more accessible kink education to the masses through Twitter until about 2022. At the start of 2023, I moved my professional domination efforts to independent phonesex work, and femdom became my full-time job.
Between my own longtime mental health recovery efforts and my love of neuropsychology, spirituality, and hypnosis, I found my most comfortable niche: using the nature of the subconscious mind to create better scenes and healthier routines for clients, bringing my years of trauma-informed, risk-aware consensual kink to those who needed to kneel for a responsible domme. With years of near-daily practice hypnotizing clients, partners, and friends, my proficiency with conversational hypnosis grew with my confidence, and my desire to mentor others in the kink community became far too important to ignore.
Today, that desire: to help people embrace their personal sovereignty, heal with kink, and reach a state of acceptance with their desires and shadow selves, is what brings you to Chiron in Leather.
Originally a figure in Greek myth, the centaur Chiron, the famed wounded healer, became the namesake of a minor planet discovered by astronomers. Astrologists regard Chiron as a planet whose placement represents where we have unhealed wounds that are meant to become wisdom: mine is in Cancer, the part of the sky associated with emotions, intimacy, intuition, love, and devotion.
Chiron in Leather exists to help you tend to yourself through a lens that is typically kinky: whether that’s a surface-level education about the best practices of risk-aware domination, or a deeper delve into something like why you continue to fall for avoidant doms and or emotionally-unavailable submissives, or why you’re still so ashamed of your own desires. I’m well-versed in the language of the subconscious; not just for hypnotic purposes, but for analyzing the patterns your subconscious craves and why certain acts, scenarios, and emotions feed its needs. Many of us don’t realize how much weight our subconscious has on our daily conscious life… but I can teach you more about it. Let’s re-negotiate your relationship with control so you can freak safely.